Engaged, almost engaged, or just certain: the future wife gifts live here. Somewhere between the yes and the wedding there is a long stretch of planning where the two of you can get lost in logistics. This collection is for that stretch. Necklaces for a fiancee or a future wife, each paired with a printed message card about the day you met her, the promise you have already made, the fact that she is your last everything. You sign it in your own hand before you give it.

Choose by the words first. The cards do different work: some look back at the beginning, some look ahead at the years coming, one or two are just funny. Once the card is right, pick the pendant style and finish, with most necklaces offered in a 14K white gold finish and an 18K yellow gold finish.

Give it on a random Wednesday if you can. The wedding gets enough attention. If the calendar insists on an occasion, Valentine's Day and the anniversary of your first date both qualify, and after the wedding this collection hands her off to To My Wife.

Is this meant to replace an engagement ring?

No, and it is not trying to. It works alongside the ring: a gift for the season of being engaged rather than for the moment of proposing.

Can I add my own words to the card?

The message on the card is printed. Your part is the signature, added by hand before gifting.

How quickly does it ship?

Each necklace is made to order and ships in 2 to 3 business days. Delivery within the US usually takes another 2 to 5 business days.

What if she would rather have a different style?

The 30 day money back guarantee makes an exchange or a refund straightforward.